Need help with house taxes?

3 years behind.. got divorced ( had to pay to keep the house) had to filed bankruptcy,got hurt at work, on disability now. my son and his wife and 5 kids lived with me for the last 4 years and was suppose to pay the taxes for one of the years.. never did and so i had them leave and they have left me with a large elect. bill( which they were suppose to pay) and a large water bill( witch they were suppose to pay) that was the only bills I asked them to pay for living here plus food....they left and didn't let me know they were month behind... they got the mail. and now after paying all this money to keep the house( paid the x to keep it no I'm so behind I don't know what to do. been here 22 years, raised all my kids here. have to much invested to just leave it all.just need a break, till i get on my feet again. have not been to work since nov. 2010 and just had surgery march 2 2011. I have a lawsuit from work( will get paid for the accident) but not helping me now. and no. the lawyer I have is a Workman's comp. lawyer, can't help me with this..just living day to day and trying to keep my head above water.. want to pay my house taxes just can't right now. any help will be grateful. I have animals too, so please don;t say I should just take the loss, it would be more then you think. please help me.